Thanks for your answer!

You are right. Actually this friend has crossed my boundaries many times already, but she did it unintentionally. I feel like she is not connected to her feelings, and value different things than I do. For example stuff like this: We live in Europe. Once she gave me some winter jackets as she moved away from Europe (she didn’t know whether she’d come back to live in Europe). But then, she came back. And she asked me those winter clothes back. I felt somehow hurt because I thought they were presents. I just couldn’t understand her train of thoughts, how could she think that way. The problem was not the winter jacket, or the objects/materials. But the way she handled me as a friend or just a human with feelings.