She didnt text back

Everyone should maintain a strong 'door' and personal boundaries. You want to be the kind of guy who indiscriminately shares himself with everyone, but you want to be the guy where your attention and affection is a precious commodity that can be gone tomorrow.

You're a fun cool guy towards everyone, but you don't allow yourself to get too close to fuck-ups. That's what I would recommend to you moving forward.

Sometimes you have to take a step back and ask yourself, if I were Brad Pitt would this girl be acting like this?

You want to just remove your attention and validation from the girl and move forward. Do what I said, try to salvage it, treat it like a shit test. If you go up and ask her if she got it, of-course she'll say no, you can tell her to come sit by you, and then you can use that time to charm her, get her laughing, push pull her a little bit and take her validation from her.

Other than that, you're starting to sound like a friendzoned oneitis case, and the fact that you're putting such an emphasis on the one girl makes it blatantly obvious this girl just thinks you're a needy guy and knows you're not a player. Make sure you're casting a big net of girls that you're talking to and making moves on. If school isn't enough, find the nearest mall. Fuck man I'm about to get a job at the mall just because I've recognized the last year I've been a complete pussy and haven't been on my shit.

If you ARE a friendzoned, needy guy. Stop texting girls. It will stick out like a sore thumb. Keep your interactions lite and 100% man to woman until you get some good empowered experiences going and you can tap into being that fun, sexual, player dude. Honestly, I don't like texting girls in general. I'm not the kind of guy to feed into their validation and attention all day, but that's just me and my bigoted opinions. Maybe there's a little to be said about my narcissism in there, but yeah.

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