This is a different kind of CB. (Some responses in comments)

To be very fair, I've been in the same position. When somebody helps but also leaves the house a mess while that's out of your control to do anything about due to healing, that's extremely irritating. Like how difficult is it for a fully grown adult to pick up after themselves, especially in someone else's house, and especially when you know the person in question can't clean it up. The amount of times someone took me to an appointment out of kindness but left a dirty toilet/trash/dishes everywhere/put things out of my reach/put things in the path of my wheelchair where I couldn't reach etc... At some point that outweighs the help you get and I just paid through the nose for a taxi so I at least had a liveable house.

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