Different libidos causing issues

This is somewhat normal. Most couples have different libidos. You can try to meet each other halfway. Sit down with him and have a serious conversation and let's say you usually like 3 days, but you can max at 4-5 days a week without feeling uncomfortable. Then suggest doing different sexual acts on one of those days. Maybe one day is full on intercourse, one all of the above, another fellatio, another intercourse. And one where it may just be groping and getting each other off via manual masturbation. However, if he tries to break your boundary let him know that you have a limit and tell him flat out no. If it continues, then maybe you both need couples therapy so that he can find out why he tries to break through boundaries.

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