I’m a military spouse myself and I 100000% do not understand why she did what she did. My husband and I struggled SO much during deployment with the SAME exact problem. We had different love languages and he didn’t understand why I wasn’t satisfied. Never once did I think to go sleep with some other guy and destroy the years of marriage and life I built with the man I love. Never. It isn’t easy at all, I never claimed that. But it is never acceptable to cheat. And I literally am not saying anything other than I think it’s weird as fuck that everyone seems to just be praising her for simply addressing it after months of denying it and calling all her fans “fucking cruel”