Discussion Monday

RSVP deadline was 5 days ago, so we spent the weekend messaging the stragglers (about half our list!). That helped a lot, but there's still a decent amount of people who either ignored the message (FB so it says they saw it), and also people who are saying "they aren't sure yet". We have some buffer time, but at a certain point they do have to decide...

However, the more annoying one is my Fiance's "step-sister" (parent's married recently, so it feels weird to even call her a sister). She's not a great person, and she's super flaky - so inviting her was very much an obligation invite. She hasn't RSVPd yet (one of the people I can see is ignoring the messages asking her to do it), but we heard through the grapevine that she has a new boyfriend that she is planning on bringing. They weren't dating when invites were sent, and she hasn't said anything to us about it yet, or asked us if there's space. Also, if anyone who would pull a no-show at the wedding, she's at the top of the list!

Okay, vent over! Exciting to finally start seeing our numbers come together, still waiting on 30 people!

/r/weddingplanning Thread