TRP forgets love.
BP forgets genetics and evolution.
MGTOW forgets sex and relationships are fun.
TRP is great up until you get into a loving relationship.
BP has a hard time getting there where the woman actually respects the man as man.
Sounds like you are doing it right for you.
I'm 45, together with my wife for 25 years, a swinger with my wife for 13 of those years with two great kids.
I got lucky, I was very BP 18-19-20. At 20 I got beta chucked for chad to use the cool terms by a true slut (I don't say this as a shame thing, I like sluts, but when you are fucking a guy a home, a guy at school with a gf, me at another school and then some other dude at my school it does fit). This pissed me off but woke me up and I sort of invented my own combination of PUA-TRP before either was much of a thing. Being I only really wanted a stable relationship I quickly found it and have been pretty happy since.