I mean I have responsibilities, just not anything to do with kids. We’re comfortable on my spouse’s income. I dedicate multiple hours/day to staying fit, I keep my house clean and looking great, I work hard to grow and raise our own food, I cook and bake for my husband and I. I get to travel with him, game with him, we have several hobbies both together and separately. We happily and consistently choose this lifestyle, and this is our idea of success. A redditor saying I don’t have responsibilities simply because they have different ones doesn’t change that. And who knows? Maybe one day we’ll want a few children. But we don’t rn, so oh well lol