Thanks for the nice response and I understand the last part completely but that’s not me I’m not in a relationship and haven’t been for years but I don’t want to be gay because I enjoy the lifestyle I live now if I were openly gay it would all change and I don’t want it to change. I don’t want to lose my bro’s or it become weird between us. I don’t want to lose the females I talk to or have them acting weird, stuff like that is what I don’t want to lose. If being gay was 100% reg then of course i wouldn’t care but it’s not and I’m not an activist and don’t care to be one I just want to live and and die having a reg life. I’m black I also don’t involve myself with black activism I don’t even comment on that type of stuff because I just really don’t care I only care abt what’s in my face the people and situations I actually deal with daily.