Dm says Only 2 Genders exist

Well, there are a few ways you could go here. (I’m going to go for a little satire here, but of course you don’t need any of this explained to you.)

Maybe it’s worth risking your close friendship with your DM trying to lecture him about politics and what you learned in your Gender Studies class. (Or, if you try this on someone who’s not a close friend?) Sure, I just watched an online group I was in break up yesterday because two people I knew did this and ended up deciding their views were irreconcilable on a subject the game could not just ignore. Sure, I’ve only once in my life made an argument about politics and had somebody actually tell me, “I never thought about it that way before.” and it was about something a lot more less central to their world-view. But maybe you want to try.

Maybe you’re so committed to this concept, you decide you’ll play your AFAB Enbie Tabaxi even though your DM is not on board and it will be a constant source of conflict every time someone uses a pronoun throughout the entire campaign and everyone else at the table will get fed up with it real fast.

If not, it’s sort of like you pitched this character and the DM said, “There are absolutely no Tabaxi in my campaign world.” Or maybe even more like, they otherwise run a good game, but the Internet gave him a very wrong idea of what cat-people have to be like.

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