its the same point as it always was.
Like most of us, we were mislead to believe the disney channel, soy boi, propaganda... her love IS “real”, it’s just not a rational Male-like love like when we understand the cost/benefit of the relationship and we choose to invest.
Women are sort of attracted to you like moths to a light bulb, and depending on your game you’re dimming or turning up the light every action you take. without a proper understanding of women you will inadvertently kill a lot of opportunities.
This is how women love - You have to accept that now. Take some time and process it - don’t direct your frustration to anyone but mother nature - but ultimately remember that mother nature equipped you with the tools to have a fighting chance and win- your caveman-ish/success genes are still part of you... tap in to that as a lifestyle.