My New Years resolution was to stop checking diagnosed BPD ex fiancés social media, and I’ve stuck to it. It’s all bullshit fakery and not a real representation of what’s going on behind the scenes. I know he will fuck up his life because he always does. He started dating impregnated and got engaged to replacement within a 3 month span to a 23 year old (we are both 34) and of course this is gonna blow up. He lives in poverty and this girl is no better off I can’t wait for it to blow up in his face but it’s not healthy for myself to continue on checking in. He is a drug addict who will relapse and his child bride is gonna be on the receiving end of some real nasty abuse. I suspect it will be worse than I ever got simply because she will be a financial burden on his already cash strapped life and he cannot handle stress. I am free while they pretend to have a happy future together and I just laugh about it with my friends. Untreated BPD people do not change, are incapable of change, and are best left as a forgotten memory. Free yourself from the bullshit they want you to feel chained to them for life.