Well you are safe because I never approach anyone in the parking lot.

As a physically disabled person myself with both visible and non-visible disabilities having had a blue placard for years and having had to get a full physical to get that placard, it makes my blood boil to watch people who are pretty obviously using a relatives placard commit fraud.

I will "police" any handicapped spot I see and believe to be fraudulent. I turn them into the DMV along with videos of the occupants coming and going and their DMV placard number and their license plate which is what is promoted by the DMV themselves.

It also makes my blood boil when someone has the nerve to tell me what I can and can't do in a country that is free at least for the time being.