Does anyone get frustrated with other supply seeing you as the enemy

Yes, in particular his ex. I think she still doesn't realize he's a narc, she is younger than me and I assume more easily manipulated. He ghosted me and then I received a worrying message from her, along the lines of "What you did to him was disgusting, get a life you psycho" and of course I had no clue what she was on about. When I finally was able to contact her on a social media account she hadn't blocked me on, she told me he'd accused me of a variety of insane things and how "Why would I believe you over HIM he's always been honest with me and you're obviously crazy" - when really all I did was stand up to him for the first time and ask him what was going on in regards to some things that seemed "off" ... When he talked to me about her, he made her seem manipulative and toxic, and how he'd been so in love with her and she used him for his money etc... I wonder what he must've told her about me... because it seems he takes kernels of truth and warps them into something much more awful and dark... And his narrative for me is that I'm crazy. Which is something I used to say about myself, funnily enough. I'm "crazy" in the sense that I'm unconventional and unpredictable, (I don't really use that word for myself anymore). Not in the "seducing, drugging and stalking men" way that he seems to have portrayed me as. Piece of shit.

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