Friends leagues are always different and awesome even if they aren't big money. The only league I'm in that I'm ok with league vote vetoes has been going for a decade. We're all adults and there's been one trade vetoed in that decade. It was the new guy and something dumb like a top 5 WR for a couple of backup RBs that had almost no path to starting. I even made a league post that was basically, "I'm all ears.". Nothing. If he would have pulled some beautiful mind shit and showed how it made sense, I would have been like motherfucker thought this through and pushed everyone to ok it but if you can't even attempt to defend a collusion level trade, you deserve to have it vetoed.