I didn't read the other posts, but I'll tell you what my friends and I do/talk about. Guys respect women as much as they demand respect for. A lot of guys will push boundaries to see what they can get away with, both with what they talk about over text and what they do in person. You have to establish very early on what you're going to put up with and be firm about it. Guys who are serious won't push boundaries/will respect them. Guys who aren't will fade away quickly.

You also should avoid situations that can get you into trouble. I would go to dinner with a girl by ourselves even though maybe that's not the "right" thing to do like people say. But I would think twice about getting in the car alone, because even if you're both trying to be good, we all know what can happen