I'm irish in the northeast, and sometimes i don't shave or cut my hair for months during the winter, also an auto immune thing i have makes my the skin on my face red for a day or two (prednisone makes my face puffy)

i had my feelings hurt because my ex (who forgot to break it off with me by the way) gave photos of me that only she should have had to her abusive ex and he spent 4 days stalking and harassing me by posting my address and number and those photos along with private convos and spamming it all over reddit (along with her address and phone number.. then she blocked me for letting her know)

im willing to let it slide.. and i dont care ... but that hurt my feelings wondering how he got the photos in the first place

anyway i kicked several drug habits years ago. i get really fuckinig offended when people make assumptions like this about me just because i look unhealthy for a couple days out of the month sometimes. im neatly trimmed now, work out every day, 6'2" 195, eating fine.... and running two businesses,, no i'm not on drugs.

i forgive people for asking and appriciate their concern.. and her for sharing those photos.. ..im willing to forget and forgive lots of stuff..

but i would never beg for someone who pity's me just to talk to me and assume i'm not okay. i dont need that, never asked for it.

you shouldn't make assumptions like this my friend.