Why does it feel like guys in their 20s these days only want sex and not a serious relationship?

Yeah, I can see what you’re saying. I’m in my mid-20s and I’ve never had a boyfriend before. Its not because I can’t get one. I think I’m a pretty cute and outgoing Asian girl LOL. It’s just hard for me to meet guys because there isn’t really any that I’m interested in where I live. Now that I’m older, I think it’s even harder to meet guys and it is true that guys aren’t really interested to commit which sucks. I’ve been trying dating apps but I rather meet guys in real life. But honestly, I’m kind of glad that I haven’t dated anyone because it made me more independent and confident in myself than having to always worry about a guy. Sometimes I do worry about not being able to meet someone because it does take time to build a relationship and I don’t want to be super old when I get married (especially when my mom is always asking). So yeah, it is stressful sometimes that some guys don’t want to commit and just want to hookup especially if it’s someone you could be interested in, but I learned that I rather use my time on myself and be single than to waste it waiting and looking for guys that don’t want to commit. Because they won’t until their ready. And sometimes I feel like guys just want sex because it’s easier and probably just rather focus on themselves. So I would just say to enjoy your life, make some money for yourself, and spend it with loved ones and hopefully we will meet someone eventually who does want something serious. :)

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