This is completely my opinion but I would say that it matters a lot less. As far as it mattering for women, it’s not something that matters to me as a I have a high N count myself (below 15), but I don’t find it has had any personal negative consequences for me. However, I do agree theoretically that men view high N counts negatively.
And theoretically for women, I don’t think this works the same way. I have been with men who I would presume had high N counts, or I know that they did, and I have also taken virginities or been with men who have been with 1 person prior to me. This is more my ‘taste’. I do think that the economic principle stands regardless of gender, and when I watch a boy who I have been with reject a bunch of women, it is an ego boost for me but I think showcases his value and the fact he has standards. Having said that, the next man I was with had a colourful history, but I liked the fact despite it he wanted to settle with me, so it goes both ways. Technique wise you can always tell when someone is a virgin, and it is even more blatant if they have watched a lot of porn. Not to be TMI but performance can also be affected if they finish too quickly or become overly stressed and suffer ED.
For a relationship perspective I would prefer a man to have a low N count. I would accept a virgin but I would be happy with someone under 5. That is because I like the innocent nerdy boy type and I think it shows that they are pure, traditional and would cherish me because it’s not something that they do often (that is to say, they should be decently attractive but have rejected other offers or are shy). I’m not into the Chad type, they’re great to party with but I wouldn’t trust them as a partner.
On the other hand, this is my preference that my friends mercilessly mock me for, and plenty of girls enjoy the idea of taming a player. It is really all about preference. For me, as long as we are emotionally compatible, have good chemistry, they’re tall, same intelligence level as me, similar economic background or above, then I’m good. It’s not make or break, but if they were clubbing every night and had 1000s of Insta followers and a high N count… Nope. For the streets.
I think in general as long as you’re sexually healthy and you don’t have Love Island numbers in the 200s and you want to settle down and commit, girls don’t care. Many girls prefer older guys who undoubtedly have more partners.
Also more sexual experience usually means more skill from the man.
My main problem with my virginal boys is that they feel stressed/intimidated. I’m very submissive in bed but a high N count (or me just being a hot party girl stereotype) can be emasculating. This doesn’t happen with older guys or guys with high N counts, they are still able to take the lead. So maybe I’m barking up the wrong tree.
I think N count in men contributes to the overall picture when you vet them. If they already seem like a player, it’s a no. But if they are older, more dominant, more confident - it can work in their favour. Depends on their overall vibe and the girl’s taste. Religion, whatever.
Tbh I would never want a virgin who also comments on a red pill forum. I appreciate this is rich as I am also commenting but I would never discuss this in real life. But yeah a virgin Redditor would be a no. A cute Christian boy would be OK if he had friends.