„doesn’t show up in the first place“

“Sorry I can’t make it, I fell asleep and just woke up!”

“I’m so sorry, my stomach is not right tonight, I’m going to have to stay in!”

“Omg was that tonight?! Shit I’m so sorry I totally forgot! I’m such an asshole.”

I’m not above ghosting all together and considering severing all ties with the friend so I don’t have to address said ghosting.

Also not above awkwardly and inappropriately spilling my guts and sharing my very personal battle with social anxiety to avoid the friend being angry at me for not showing up but being paranoid that they think I’m full of shit and just making excuses and then having an over sharing hangover the next day and aggressively avoid friend for weeks.

Guys, I’m a blast. I’m awesome. It’s great to be me.

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