Oh, the narc I knew did that. If I said ying he said yang. He hated everything I liked. If I had an argument or disagreement with someone, he took the other person’s side — even if he didn’t know the other person. He devalued all of my core beliefs and values. And I won’t go into the whole takeaway game. At the end, I told him I didn’t the point of us being or working together, for we had nothing in common. He meant to harm me but he actually freed me. No one likes to be around a Debbie Downer — and narcissists are the ultimate downer. I also started calling him on his BS, set boundaries, and refused to give in to his ridiculous demands. He started looking for new supply and found it in a pimply girl at his job. I feel sorry for her.

They do so much during these relationships, don’t they? Why did we put up with all that crap? Why do people out there still put up with it!