Domestically abused woman reveals text messages she used to get from her abuser

I have an 80 page pdf of 8 months of texts like these. There were days when he would do this for hours straight, with all sorts of messed up allegations and accusations towards me and anything I did. I would get phone calls while I was working, saying he had just seen my car on a main road and wanting to know where I really was. (I have a VERY common car.) He'd show up at my house at 1-2 am, looking for whoever I was cheating with because I didn't answer the phone. I was sleeping. I wasn't allowed to do anything and after a while, I didn't want to do anything. He comes off as a really nice guy and he plays himself the victim of the circumstances of his life to others and told everyone I was the crazy one. I put up with this for 3 years before I escaped by moving across the country last year. I've put on 40 pounds because I was so depressed; and at this point, I don't know if I ever want to be in another relationship. It seems too much to risk getting caught in something like that again.

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