"Don't Be Afraid to Dominate"

It happens quite frequently. Girls aren't used to dominant guys these days. It confuses them. I've had many women who considered themselves dominant until they slept with me, and loved being taken control of.

You don't have to be rough, but it's a nice spice to add now and then. You just have to realize that she can't control you (if you're in shape, obviously). You don't have to follow her orders. In fact, practice telling her no. "Take me from behind" No. "Fuck me now" . Gently put a hand over her mouth and continue eating her. Kiss them with passion, holding their head in your hands. Think of them as tiny, and tell her how tiny she is. Hold her shoulders down when you fuck her. Gauge her reactions and tug her head back with her hair. Again, it doesn't even have to be rough, just passionate. Let her feel your strength. She wants to know you are strong.

A plate of mine who is bi threw a party for me this past weekend, with several bi girls, and a few lesbians. It was a "Castle Anthrax" party (Monty python reference). I invited a few girls from tinder to attend. One of them had herself listed as a "dominatrix". At one point during the party, she jumped on top of me on the couch and held me down by my throat. I smiled at her, called her a cute little dom. I told her she wasn't strong enough to be my dom. She looked confused and asked "Isn't Plate your dom? " hahaha. No, honey. I grabbed her hand off of my throat and put it behind her back, grabbed the back of her neck and pulled it down to my face. I whispered in her ear, "you're such a cute little thing. You're no dom. " she'd fight a little and I'd immediately let go and let her put her hands on my throat and smile. "go ahead, choke me. ". She'd get mad and say " ugh, not if you tell me too!"

But in her eyes you could see how intrigued she was. I told her if we're going to play, I'M in charge. This was all easy going, i wasn't overly excited or intense. My calm was the intensity. And it frustrated her. All of this in the middle of the living room with many other girls around (playing dirty jenga).

Eventually, i made Plate dominate her too, and had her teach "dom" how to properly suck a cock. It wasn't a bad night.

But don't go throwing girls around, haphazardly. You have to actually not be intimidated by them, and you have to read them. Not ALL girls want to be dominated, but many do. Use your intuition and be smart. Don't push boundaries if she isn't in to it. That's just asking for trouble. And if she isn't into it, you probably fucked up already anyway.

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