I agree on this. I disagree by the fact that sex is not just simply inserting a dick into my vagina. That's the worst type of sex. I want to be mentally stimulated for a little while. Let a man kiss me softly as I bite his lips and pull them gently. Let his hands touch my body as I sit on top of him. As our bodies compliment each other I want to suck his neck and ear while I grind to stimulate myself more. If I keep going, even with pants on, I will get off because I know my body. I will stop at the peak and allow him to take off my top. While he admires I will take his off to feel skin on our chests as we kiss.

I didn't even get to the insertion of a penis into a vagina yet and you're telling me this isn't a healthy relationship. Hands or tongue haven't wandered yet. I'm sorry that you feel a penis is everything. Maybe not everyone, but for me.. YES!