Yeah it's a bad idea if yall don't have chemistry and interest in each other. Dated my 1st boyfriend in middle school. It was pressured upon me. My friends keep brainwashing me that he is cute, and I just agree that he is cute, and they ran to his group of friends and ask what he felt about me. He called me ugly. Beside he seems to like one of my friends who prettier, sassy, and was an ex of another friend.

But then he dm me if I liked him. I thought our first impressions weren't great, but we can improve so I said yes... we went out. 2 yrs later we haven't gone to a date out of school, kiss, hold hands. Our hugs were force by our friends and we only have one photo taken together which my friend told us to stand together for the photo.

He was a super quiet guy. He built a wall around him, and I wasn't able to break it during the 2 yrs. So yeah we broke up :/ and he dated more girls who also broke up with him.

I was too young to validate my feelings, still am now. Wish him the best, he's not an asshole, at least I think he's not. My friend did say he dated more girls before and after. It looks like he doesn't have the courage to say no, or he just enjoys dating new girls. Oh well at least I learnt my lesson.