Totally get you, and as for the ppl saying toxic person etc. Dude you could say the nicest stuff and someone will say you are toxic. That is the nature of the internet conversations. Unlike the bar where you just have the BS convos and move on this s*** lives forever and what is said in jest or in some other context loses it and there is always someone(s) who will come out yelling you are horrible.
Really the funny thing is this is not new, I remember it from as far back as BBS dial in days. Us nerds didn't do the bars we needed different ways to have BS convos and that is how it happened. Nothing actually applied in "real life" aka everything was said as in throw it at the wall and have a conversation to discuss and shoot the s***. Like ppl do at bars.
But for whatever reason unknown to me ppl love to try and make this stuff the core of a person's persona. Yet that is often the furthest thing from the truth. I mean sh** this forum for example is about a videogame and were literally talking/making snide or joking remarks about the game itself. Ain't nobody tagging everything with a /s or JK cause let's be real for a second. It's a freaking video game ppl.
Play the game, if you have issue in multiplayer (with the ONLY Exception being cheaters actual real cheaters) then maybe you should truly be only playing SP games and SP modes and Co-op mode.
I mean let's get real for a second folks. Once you go online MP in an FPS combat based game, you get what you get and you don't get upset. There are other options like Deep Rock Galactic or Coop non friendly fire based games out there. But know your pickings and just for the love of ....
But to expect other players to play your way only is well, let me ask Do you also take the ball home when you are losing at kickball? (Do people still play kickball with that red ball anymore???)
I do agree exfil campers are cheap, I do agree dead body campers are cheap. But they exist and that's their game, deal with it. Life is not always your way and the game is the same way when you bring in real life opponents. Learn to counter, learn to fight back. I don't want to use the trope Git Gud but really...