People aren't.

So, what is your problem? Your problem is that your wife is having huge breast and people stares at that. People will look at anything they find out of order, not just breasts. And breast have sexual representation due to whatever reasons. May be it is created by overt sexual exploitation by women themselves, that is not the topic. Men and women will behave the way society and anthropology expects them to be. You and your wife effing need to deal with it. This is real world, don't be a PITA about it. Effing deal with it.

Men in older cultures aren't so invested, tits just aren#t the big deal and taboo they are in the west.

Even Sentelese men in remote Andaman islands cherish to caress their women's breasts. That is how men are built. If you are hell bent on changing human sexual preferences, you can try. But, it is not going to succeed. Men and women will perform how nature expects them to be. No use of getting butt hurt.

No I have low body fat %. You are an idiot. I suppose you think your grandmother is trying to attract mates when she is wearing a top that allows the air to calculate around her breasts.

Your body fat% does not matter, your mental range matters. Do you identify yourselves as a man or a women? Just asking, because there are people who are men and identify themselves as women these days, I don't want to be mistaken.

As for my grandmother, thanks , no thanks, for taking it so personal. She passed away before I'm even born, hope you can reflect about your personality so much. I don't want to bring anyone's grandma or forefathers/mothers into random internet discussions, may be it is a routine for you. But, I don't need to go that low.