I don't think I match my partner's intimacy...

I had settled with a partner and as time passed by I grew resentful and began to have self-esteem issues. My partner had a low libido and it just didn't match mine, he too was a great, genuine sweet guy but I felt rejected and like this is just how it's always going to be... 10 years passed, of me just holding on and settling for mediocre intimacy. Even when I would communicate with my partner about doing it more often, he would agree but ultimately it never happened, he always made excuses. It made me feel terrible, like maybe i'm not attractive enough? maybe I smell?, he would make me feel bad about wanting more intimacy. Saying I want too much and once a week should be enough.

Unfortunately I couldn't do it anymore and broke it off.. I now found someone with the same libido as mine, and guess what, he TOO is a genuinely sweet guy with a high libido that makes me feel wanted and sexy af. I've been having the best sex of my life.. he loves everything about me, he compliments me and makes me feel so wanted, he loves my body and my libido. We've done so many new things together that I never even imagined. Just think about it how much it means to feel wanted and have someone in your life that wants you and makes you feel sexy. There are many men out there who are genuine and good hearted. It was so hard for me to end things but ultimately I am so happy. I'm so sexually satisfied.

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