Also you literally in your own words posted this: I personally trust my gf. But I don't trust other dudes.

Clubs are full of people that are drunk, party, dance and advance on each other.

For this reason, I think it's okay if your bf doesn't want you to go. Why is it that you want to go there? I'm sure that you could hang out with these people some other way. Why does it have to be a club?

Also, the men that go to these clubs are usually not the best mannered. They hit on you, they grab you around the waist or your butt when you're dancing, they sometimes try to kiss you, etc.

It happened to my gf too. A guy grabbed her ass in a club. I was furious. I don't care that he didn't know she was taken, and that she had to tell him she was. He still did that, and I was really angry.

Obviously I am cautious when she "gives me the good news" that her female cousin asked her to go to a club.

I don't want to hear "It wasn't my fault he grabbed me!" Because, it kinda was... You went to a club, a place where men often advance on women, and something happened. It's partly your fault for going there in the first place.

You know what shes doing is wrong but your too afraid of being single. Dont let this girl possibly hurt you take the rose colored glasses off.