right now youre just getting beat up by people better than you. so it seems like you dont really understand what you are asking for.

To not go against players significantly better than me? Also, how does similar skill equate to sweats? If I'm playing Crucible to just have fun or get gear in the Quickplay, not competitive, I'm not there to sweat. But if someone in the same game as me is sweaty, it still more than likely means their sweaty skill level is roughly the same as my casual skill level (assuming SBMM). Thus, the game will still likely be balanced compared to the pubstomps that occur frequently in one team's favor. Alternatively, if the sweats in my games are still dominant, they'll naturally rise up to the next skill bracket, and quickly find their way out of my games.