You're young and still have time.... drop the "girls only like brainless football players" attitude asap. Not only is it not true, girls can sniff that insecurity from a mile away. If the only girls you're going for are girls that are into brainless football players to boot, perhaps you need to readjust what you want in a partner. You're 17. Girls don't have to be making all of your sexual fantasies come true no matter how bad you or anybody else wants them to.

I know it's really hard not to feel animosity towards those that are well-liked, but you need to quit acting like you're the only one with REAL taste and education.

Ive had SA for a long time, and frankly, I see why other people make friends or have SO's easier. They're confident. They're outgoing. They're not scared to make mistakes. They have better things to do than sulk about themselves. I don't expect people to be attracted to the energy I put out. Nor do I expect people to magically be drawn to me when I'm so shy I have a hard time talking in the first place.