Why does she/ he hate men ? Jealousy for their abilities to inhabit 'masculine' experiences obviously. Or an intolerable power imbalance

This is the thing. I don't care if someone wants to be trans I have neither the time nor the energy to get mad about something that doesn't affect me. I understand that gender and sexuality are continums and you don't have to act a certain way to be a man or a woman

but can anyone tell me, when dealing with heavy issues of self identity, why it is considered a sane and logical and encouraged step, to radically alter your personal lived reality experience in the world asap? Like therapy exists, maybe you just hate your family