I agree with you but that's not what I was getting at. Usually I'll ask if they ( a stranger, neighbor, ect.) need help, if they don't I tell them to have a nice day and move on. I was referring to the general "nice guy" thing and was wondering if that was what I was doing or was I missing something.

It might be mix of both, after reading mgta's comments I see a lot of myself in that. Not necessary all of it. I tend to leave people be, try to be helpful when needed and stay isolated to myself and improve upon myself.

I see a lot of what I could of been if I hadn't given up sex and dating. I'm seeing it was the right path for me. I'm kinda scared of what I would of become.

I'm really grateful for the people who posted here. It really helped me gain some perspective on a few things I have been struggling with internally for a while.