Usually, I’d say yes, that is my personality, but right now I’m at the point where I’m so beat up and depressed that it takes too much energy to do so.

My wife is always the first one to jump to things. For example - If I’m working on something, I’ll clean up after I’m done. She hates it and cleans up after me as I’m working.

She takes care of the baby now, and doesn’t have problems with it anymore. It took 5 months, but by then I had already lost my job. Additionally, she’ll do the house things if need be. If I forget to do something during the day, she does it at night, even if I still planned on doing it... and that starts a fight.