I don't know whether to confront him or just take my stuff and leave without saying anything?

Unfortunately, I don't think confronting him is going to lead to meaningful change. Even if the affair stops -- who's to say he won't cheat on you with the next one. And if all cheating stops, it will manifest in other ways: Neglect, emotion or physical violence, isolation (which sounds like it's already happened).

Have you considered looking on AirBnB? Get a place for a couple of days that you can afford (longer term), and then let the landlords know what you are going through (if it works out), and then ask them if it would be available longer term (i.e. a month) until you find another place. They might even cut you a deal.

No, the right answer is to respect yourself. It's time to ghost him. Be strong lady. Sending you positive thoughts. There's an army of people on here who support you.

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