I'm 27 years old and a virgin. I was raised to believe that you should simply only have sex when you are married. My mother sheltered me, and my father didn't care. Not to blame him, he had an oldest son (5 years older than myself), and a daughter 3years>me. So, I haven't had sex. I haven't even reached third base. Yes, I desire for it happen because I love helping others. It wouldn't be much about me, and I'd love every second of it. I've contemplated using it in an attempt to obtain my first experience, but I cannot do that. It has to be natural, and preferably I am in love with her. That's what matters to me, but I've been so lost for so long. I blame zero other individuals for their lack of interest in me. I've made many many silly choices.