So much goes into all of this but I hear you if that's the case. You have to look at someone's face 24/7 so yes how your face looks is important. I can't sugar coat that fact, if your face is messed up then that damages how you're viewed in every instance. I'm not FA but I gravitate here because I try to help and I get humbled sometimes by what I read. I'm in the best shape I've ever been in 8/10 for my age counting some skin sag from losing weight (lost 80 lbs) and my face is 9/10 (not trying to brag) after being on this sub I feel very lucky to get what I got from genetics. I'm hooking up with a bigger girl simply because I'm kinda lonely and she has a cute face. Her face is the only reason I consider any of it but she is cute so her weight becomes less of an issue. I'm the guy you hate because I give "lower" females attention simply to have sex with them. I'm working my way to an actual relationship with someone equal to me but right now I'm just having sex with her for the sex. So I hate to break it to you but facial attraction is really important, unless you can work around them and develop some feelings over time, online dating won't work because pics are everything. Sorry you got denied like that by someone that may have been equal to you and maybe she should of given you that chance but personality doesn't close all gaps in attraction.