Same same but different. After the breakup I realized alot of things I didn't see when I was in it. After almost a month of living without her I tried thinking back to the stuffs that she did. She never bought me a birthday present when I took the time to surprise her and prepared everything almost a month before her birthday. Her previous boyfriends all treated her like trash. Her prebeious relationship the roles were swapped, she was the one preparing while the ex bf was being a shit. I was the one planning the birthday surprise for her but I asked him to take the credit for it. Well well well look how the tables have turned. It really opens your eyes man, the breakup.