Down in the dumps

♥️ I'm sorry you're going through this. Where should you put this sadness? Chalk it up to one of the shit parts of your life and throw it away.

Not everyone can be a caregiver, it's a really hard, mentally taxing job. he should be seeking therapy or resources to help him with his negative thoughts, a therapist would help him find the source then adapt and suggest ways to help. If you love someone and you realize you're struggling to with a part of them, then you need to seek help. I wouldnt blame him for his feelings, this shit is tough, but I feel it does show how much he's willing to put into your relationship. When MS makes a relationship sour I always take the position that you dodged a bullet, I'd rather someone leave me now then when I'm worse and in need of more help. But if you are set on this working, maybe suggest therapy. Hugs to you OP. You're going through a low point, dont forget there will be more highs.

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