And you seem like someone who isn't arguing their case in good faith and resorting to ad hominen attack.
The fact is that the vast majority of rapes do not even reach the stage of prosecution as any number of statistics will tell you. The problem isn't abusers - male or woman - being unfairly accused, it's the victims - male or woman - who are let down by the police and intimidated out of coming forward.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rape_in_the_United_States#Prosecution_rate
https://www.nsvrc.org/statistics
https://www.rainn.org/statistics/victims-sexual-violence
That's why the Harvey Weinsteins of this world get away with it for decades and harm multiple victims before anything is done.
But I suppose as abusers have people like you to argue their case, the status quo isn't going to change anytime soon.