Or he acted too desperate. Ive got a guy in my D&D group that if he would just chill out and stop thinking sex was this crazy, amazing, life affirming and changing thing he might actually have a chance with someone. If you have a vagina though he is interested and as the only one in the group with one im stuck with yerning stares across the table and him constantly trying to grab my attention and white knighting (also no joke he is a paladin). I got a haircut before our last round and he was hanging with me watching scubs while we waited for people to arrive and after an hour our DM showed up and complimented my hair and immediately he is practically stumbling over himself to say "oh my god i cant believe i didnt notice! It looks really good thats a nice length!" Like, dude. Staaaaaahp. When DM said it, it felt sincere, now your just piggy backing to suck up. Don't. Just chill. Ive seen him with other women as well. Its no different. Apparently he hit on one so badly she pulled him aside to have a stern 30 minutes chat with him. No one knows what was said but he left very defeated. Sorry for long comment. But my roommate and i are sincerely worried about this guy. We want so badly for him to be happy with someone so he chills but he doesnt make it easy.