Dude changed his mind quickly at the end

You’re ideologically delusional. You can only see one side. It’s real when someone suddenly feels used. And it’s his right to decline paying for dinner if he suddenly feels the interaction isn’t genuine - i.e. being lied too. Get help, and get your head out of your ideological box.

Does someone have to spell out that when dishonestly enters any human interaction, it immediately severs any interpretation of a genuine connection. There’s a visceral reaction when one is suddenly lied to, as though we are now being played. We are aggressively honest with people we respect. She was throwing him aside. You can do mental acrobatics to claim she wasn’t. But in your own rebuttal you admit she was ending g the date with the excuse about hotel rules. An untruthful claim. That severed an honest interaction, and changed his mood. How can you not get that?

How about you read what I wrote!

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