He’s an adult he needs to get up and take care of himself! I lived alone for many years and so many times I’ve had to basically crawl out of bed to the shower then back to bed and body aching trying to quickly reheat a hot water bottle and have something small to eat! I’m not saying don’t help at all but also he needs to understand that you are pregnant and you need to care for yourself and once baby comes then baby is priority always for the rest of your lives

The reality is once your baby is here there will be times when you are BOTH sick and your baby will be sick too which means baby is up lots of the night and has temp and you have to keep checking on LO and providing extra support even though you feel like shit too, it’s part of being a parent! He needs to snap out of this poor me thing because you just won’t have time or energy to care for an adult when you have bigger priorities (your baby) plus recovering yourself from birth!

The reality is going to hit your husband like a pile of bricks hahaha he’s going to have a real “welcome to the real world princess” moment next time he is sick and realises that he has to get up and keep going like the rest of us