This is exactly my concern he kept mentioning I would move in with him for the past weeks he’s been talking about this and today I asked him to please clarify what this so called moving in with him is he himself said I mean for the weekends when you don’t have your son which is a red flag right there like excuse me your mother didn’t leave you behind when his step dad moved in with them. I didn’t voice anything to avoid conflict and also moving my son 40 min away isn’t ideal because I don’t even know this area it’s bigger and currently we live in a small town that sounds scary to me. Not only will I be having to hold down my son/health(dealing with a chronic illness)/mental health I would also have to be the glue to hold this relationship up. This is insane and sounds very stressful that’s why I feel uneasy to even sleep tonight I feel sick. When I get angry I get quiet to avoid saying things I’d regret but all I said was I’m sorry but you will not profit off of me I will not help you pay for this house that will be absolutely no gain ever to me or my son it’s all just you and he said well then you’ll have to help me save up so we can get a house together and which I think again is just him talking to quiet me up. He says that house which his sister would already get 100k for is his and his sisters forever because it was their dads I don’t care because I respect that but I will not be used I want a home for my son and so I told him maybe one day we’ll be neighbors and we ended the night. I feel sick I hate petty arguments