Early 30’s female , completely lost sex drive

It’s very easy to sit back and comment on a relationship that you’re not invested in and have no clue about. The fact that you’re so easy to say yah just walk away, to me says you’ve never been in love, and have no understanding of it.

No, it’s not what the future “will be like”. Prior to this I was very sexual, very into initiating sex , frequent sex, sexting my boyfriend , and being open to trying everything he wanted, and making my own requests. The fact that you just simply say “yah dump her”, shows that you lack relationship experience , and emotional maturity. It’s completely unhelpful, because what you’re saying is I should smarten up and start fucking before I get dumped ( which isn’t going to happen, because he is emotionally mature and extremely loyal and wants to work on this), instead of looking for a solution. Im a human being with feelings and emotions, not a sex doll. Some men are capable of forming a connection beyond ( well she ain’t puttin out so I’m off!) thank goodness.

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