ED and the AP

I never chose to become involved with someone with ED I wasn't aware he had ED for like idk 10 years.

It's slow.. it's like little bit over time? Idk how to explain it. I never said I didn't address it in a "we" fashion, I'm saying when I addressed it in a we fashion it was turned around on me. I was basically contitioned to believe I was sexually like "dead" or something. That was the problem not that he had ED. He also used my childhood sexual trauma as his reason why I was so sexually broken instead of this is a physical problem with him that he needs to come to terms with and address it.

I should have never been made to feel like it was my responsibility to "figure out" he had ED and to make those appointments for him. He should have been honest from the start.

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