I get what you mean. I think you'll get used to it's tone. It certainly has good advice though. I think you will find that a lot of people are sympathetic to questioning people, as most ther have been in the same boat at some point honestly.

I can't help but notice that you referred to the women at /r/MtF as your sisters saying our news feed. So, are you really an egg? Your language seems to give some insight.

As to the fear of all of the stuff, yeah it can be intimidating like jumping onto a deep pool. But isn't life just jumping into a deep pool? None of us are making it out of life alive after all, may as well be who you really want to be. You have your whole life to decide what that is