Elder brother (42M) cheated on his wife (43F) of 15 years. What can I do to support her?

Yes. He is a bad guy, he crossed the line of "married guy" shouldn't cross. But let's stay from his point of view. Maybe he loved her from very start. But they didn't work out for each other. He tried his best to save this marriage, and I am sure she tried her best too. The things just didn't work out. So, she stepped her last move, having a baby when he didn't ready to have one. He tried his best to be a good father "according to your post". But after 15 years of hollowness, he just can't stand the shit anymore and he run away. You can blame him 100 % and I am sure he will blame him too. But I am sure he knows he do a bad thing but he just want a way out of failing thing. Just my opinion as from similar criminal.

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