do small penises really get treated like shit, I mean on askwomen threads you have 30-40 percentage of them saying that they prefer them or so, or at least better than too big but average is enough granted you have the same on askmen threads regarding boobs
It depends on who's doing the asking. If a man with a small penis is looking for reassurance, of course he will get many responses from women who like small penises or don't care about size. Same thing for a small-breasted woman looking for comfort from men; men who like or prefer small boobs will come out and respond to her, while men who prefer big boobs won't comment.
Women are different; for some women, a small penis might make it more difficult to reach orgasm through PIV sex. For others, it's no problem or a preference. There are women who like small penises because it's easier to give blowjobs, experiment with sex, etc.
When I said treated like shit, I meant more so that there will be men and women who insult or make fun of guys with a small penis, which is obviously wrong and unfair. I mean, /r/smalldickproblems exists, so certainly the men there can talk about it better than I can.
For what I've read, masculine women are stereotyped as women who don't put as much effort into their appearance, including shaving and wearing makeup. Women are thought as being too boyish if they have short hair, broad shoulders, a big or lanky body frame, very tall height, muscular/bulked up, sharp angles as opposed to soft curves, etc. Women who aren't feminine enough are compared to men and prepubescent children or called "dykes". Kristen Stewart, Keira Knightley, and Miley Cyrus are some women who I've seen being called boyish/manly, although I would disagree. My vision of a masculine woman is this.
what I am trying to say is that you obviously learn that some guys to some extant white lie that they are perfect with your small boobs, so then please don't call all guys liars and redpilllers (not you but in general this sub) when they say that some women white lie when they say they love skinny, submissive, babyface, short, average girth, whatever... guys/boys
Well yes, both men and women are capable of white lies. But being a feminist and speaking against gender stereotypes doesn't mean a woman prefers feminine men no more than it means a feminist man prefers masculine women. Emma Watson has never come out and said she prefers small submissive men and dislikes tall masculine men, so she's not a liar or a hypocrite when she dates tall athletic men.
People can like and prefer whatever they want, it only becomes a problem when they insist everyone prefers that too or that the people who don't fit into those preferences are inferior. While it may be hard to believe, there are women who like short men, skinny men, shy men, etc. They might not be as loud or as common, but they exist. Just like men who like big boobs tend to be more common as well, but guys who like small boobs are still out there, as rare as they are.
As for /r/ladyboners, it's no different than /r/gentlemanboners. Conventionally attractive people of each gender are going to get voted to the top. But there are still skinny, short, or youthful-looking actors and famous men that are beloved by women who get plenty of attention or did when they were more popular. Some examples come to mind: Daniel Radcliffe, Andrew Garfield, Adrien Brody, Zac Efron, Peter Dinklage, Elijah Wood, James McAvoy, and many others I'm sure. Like I've said, Kpop is extremely popular with young women in particular, and a lot of the Korean male singers are short, thin, and young all at once.
