Encountering unfavorable personalities?

Hey, thanks for the nice words. Not preachy at all, to be fair I did ask to hear what others have to say, and I appreciate your time. And I understand your point, I really do. If this was a situation where I didn't have to consider certain factors such as: being a fairly new employee and maintaining professionalism, I would've confronted them about it. Like I said most of their actions don't directly affect me nor do I feel targeted, but I don't want to stir up unnecessary drama on behalf of others, you know? I'm not alone in my feelings and my coworkers are intelligent enough to let their personalities slide, so I figured I should do the same thing. At least for now. I just feel that they've yet to cross the line to merit a reaction from me, and in a way it's a relief since I know that I won't be holding back once that time comes. I try to distract myself by being in good company when the situation permits it, and I'm lucky enough to have hilarious, down-to-earth coworkers I can sometimes vent to and have a laugh with. So it's not too bad. I just fucking wish Person A was nicer, I mean I get wanting things to be done right, but people react to kindness better and you'd think she would know that. Person B is trickier. I figured once her lies are just too much and is being shared at the cost of someone else, or if she is intentionally putting someone down that I will meddle in some way, personal values of maintaining peace aside. And regardless of whether or not "niceness" is perceived as a weakness, luckily that doesn't concern me too much since I'm aware that I'm capable of standing up for myself when I deem it necessary. I'd just prefer it not get to that point :/ but thanks for the input, stranger! I truly appreciate it! If and when the valiant INFP within me makes an appearance, I shall give an update. Haha.

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